Before you get overwhelmed by the word "
enemies" and view today's tips as a off mark, let me get it straight that to every ability you have, there is a responsibility that comes with it.
And have this understanding that the quality of your thinking (prior to taking ACTION), determines the quality of your choice and decision that leads to a result.
So as the word enemies, do not think of staying away from them, try to embrace them, because they are your steps or rather ladder to the greater height you desire.
okay, lets get started here
You want to be a millionaire?
You need to have the skill of a millionaire and render the service of the likes.
So the first ENEMY is
- #1 THE ENEMY OF REJECTION
Note this "for you to have huge success, you will have to be rejected a lot"
This is a number one fear in the world and you have to work on it, do not reject it. be ready to accept it. be ready to suck it up. be ready to go for the NOs.
From this point of view:
Take your self as a waiter that just want to satisfy a customer by offering a cup coffee or tea, and the customer said no or not ready to take a drink, you do not see that as a rejection, just that he or she is not ready to take, might call back later, and that is a plus to you for asking initially and probably you will have a little tip for approaching initially, so please from today start going for the numbers.
In my little word, stay positive and go for the NOs
- #2 THE ENEMY OF ATTRITION
Attrition is something you have to accept and embrace, because the world would not work if everyone goes into network marketing, we need the engineers, bankers, managers ...,
You need people to quit, not as a desire but you need the best of team mate, you may go mad and angry when people quit in your team because you care and you see more in people and you wanted more from them and for them.
But know that attrition is your greatest enemy if you quit yourself, and know this, thought will come, you will be frustrated and tired but when you have your goal at heart and FOCUSED on the end of the race, you will inspire and fired up to run the race.
So, leaving you with this on the second point, be grateful and be consistent to look for the eagle among the chicken.
Know that the people who leave, could not just stay and the people who stay, could not just leave.
Believe me, people are going to deceive you over time either from your "upline" or "downline", many story will come up like;
You will be highly PAID
I will help you grow your business
I will build you up
bla bla bla ...
But beyond that, your own-self is going to deceive you, your believe system and social standard will say things that will affect you, but you have to stand your ground for what you believe in ( a proven system). And if you can handle this perfectly, you will stand tall.
Persistence should be your KEY through keep the faith, it may not be easy but promise you, it is worth IT.
- THE ENEMY OF THE DREAM STEALERS
This can be the most painful part in network marketing, when the people you call family and friend do not believe in you or your dream.
It can be annoying, you take your time to back them up and now that they are to do the same, they are tuning down the vibe and killing your energy. They will say it to your face because they use to know the old you, that less calculative lazy you, but please do not try to prove yourself right to them, let your result tell the difference.
This bring me to a tip I do teach to my team and groups of people I get to train overtime, The WIN formula (David Immonite
mind), taking the "I" which stands for INSPIRED.
what inspires you?
what do you listen to in your ladder to success in network marketing?
what is your drive, you goal, your why?
If you can get this right in the things you watch, read, listen to and act upon, promise you that NETWORK MARKETING will be fun-fare for you and with a believe system you will reach to the the TOP in no time.
You may find this helpful, not only to MLM but also to your personal life, relationship and business, kindly share your experience by leaving a comment, it may help others build a system that will help them grow and make their dream come into reality. Have a blessed day and fruitful netWORKing.
